Sunday, March 21, 2010

How To Cheer Yourself Up

Almost all of us have faced a bleak moment or some kind of depression at one point of time or the other, in our life. There might be some worries bothering us every now and then, leaving us with no time to smile and relax. In fact, in the present world, everyone is so busy and preoccupied with living life that they hardly take out time for even his/her own self, forget about family and friends. This lifestyle is but natural to bring along with it lots of worries and tensions for people, leaving them with moments of gloominess. At such times, it becomes very necessary to them to make efforts to perk up and have some fun. This article will provide you with a few tips on how to get away from worries and cheer yourself up

Best Ways Of Cheering Yourself Up
* Put on your favorite music and dance out your worries. Turn the music loud and dance to the beats; it will surely make you feel good. If you think that you cannot dance, do not let that stop you having fun. Sing at the top of your voice instead and continue to enjoy yourself.



* Spend some time with children. Their natural zest for life is infectious and will cheer you up as well. They will make you love your life. A spontaneous hug or a chubby little hand in yours will bring joy and add life to that moment.


* Push back all your worries by forcing a smile, even if you don’t feel like smiling. This will trick your brain into thinking that you are happy. This is a proven fact that if you think and act as if you are happy, you will start feeling happy and be able to get rid of any worries.


* Put aside or clear out all the clutter around you. This will help in getting rid of the negative energy from your work place as well as your home and give space for some positive energy to flow in. It is an undeniable fact that clearing out what you no longer want makes life easier. Getting rid of your past and all your worries will give you an immense sense of freedom and will give you the confidence that the future holds only happiness for you.


* Some unaccomplished project or a simple household work, which you hate to do, might be continuously nagging you. Finish any such pending work, instead of putting it off. Once you are done with the task, reward yourself with something that you love, say an aromatic bath or a bunch of flowers and chocolate. The peace of mind that comes from having got the job done will be the greatest relief and reward of all.


* Think positive and keep repeating to yourself whenever you leave the house that ‘today, my day is going to be great, it is going to be a lot of fun’, rather than thinking negatively about it. Never think that your day is going to be boring and lethargic; rather visualize it with some new excitement waiting for you.


* If there is a situation that is worrying you the whole day long, get rid of it. The reality is often less stressful than sitting alone worrying about it. Try and talk out your problem to one of your friends; this will help reduce your burden and give you space to think logically.


* Indulge in exercise or perform yoga whenever you feel you are down with a worry. It will help you release the “feel good chemicals” called endorphins, in your body. Endorphins induce a feeling of euphoria and change your mood from sad and dark to happy and bright.


* Have fun when you are down. Play games, watch comedies, put on the daily jokes option on your mailbox or simply throw a party. Having fun and getting involved with friends will help cheer you up.


* Make something! Be a bit creative and bake a cake, plan a garden, sketch a portrait, or paint a landscape. Let your feelings flow out in a painting or a drawing. This will help you come out of your worries.


* Take up something new. Learn a language, trace your family history, redecorate your room, learn a new game, take music lessons or do something you always wanted to do. Visualize yourself successfully completing the new project and the benefits it will bring to your life. This will not only occupy your mind, but will help develop high self-confidence and self-esteem.


* Visit an old friend. Plan out a day with him/her and have a blast. Share jokes, narrate your experiences, and go in for a drink. Spending some time with your old friend will bring back the young and cheerful person in you.


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